Allen B. West:
There are 3,141 counties in the United States.
Trump won 3,084 of them.
Clinton won 57.
There are 62 counties in New York State.
Trump won 46 of them.
Clinton won 16.
Not sure where Mr. West got his data, I'll assume it is correct. This does illustrate that data, while accurately reported, can be mis-leading. Since a county can be colored either red or blue (depending on who won), Mr West uses that method even if a candidate "won" by only a single vote. Since no county voted 100% Republican or 100% Democratic, a better way may be to use additional colors to represent the balance between the two. Did find a site that tried to do that:
http://www-personal.umich.edu/~mejn/election/2016/There is a LOT of purple out there. There is no doubt the President-elect lost the overall popular vote, yet had a very comfortable margin in the electoral college. This is a consequence of "winner takes all". Haven't found any data, but would be an interesting exercise to see what the result would be if the electoral votes were awarded proportionally to popular vote in the states.
Large, densely populated Democrat cities (NYC, Chicago, LA, etc) don’t and shouldn’t speak for the rest of our country.
Neither should the more sparsely populated areas exclusively speak for the more densely populated areas. Elections are all about individual votes, not acreage. The electoral college does try to balance that to some extent, perhaps imperfectly, but it is better than nothing.